Where are we headed?

22 guides to explore

GO ONE LEVEL DEEPER

THE CITY.
THE GIRL.
THE STORY.

You picked a country. Now pick the part you will actually remember.

A neighborhood that fits. A few very good spots. A first date with somewhere to go. These are your city guides for a trip with a little more chemistry.

8 CITY EDITIONS48 NAMED PLACESYOU. MAKING THE PLANS
PICK YOUR NEIGHBORHOOD FIND YOUR FAVORITE SPOT MAKE A REAL INVITATION

01 / THE SHORTLIST GETS SPECIFIC

WHERE DO YOU WANT THE STORY TO START?

The atmosphere, the neighborhoods, the dates, the daylight hours. Open a city and get past the postcard.

THE GOOD PART: MAKING IT REAL

THE GUIDE GIVES YOU IDEAS.
THE PLAN MAKES THEM YOURS.

Choose your city. Pick your base. Put a few places into your days, and leave room for the woman you want to see again.

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YOUR CITY. YOUR PACE.

01GET YOUR BEARINGS.A useful base. A good coffee. A little breathing room.
02MAKE THE FIRST MOVE.A real invitation. A place you both want to try.
03LEAVE A LITTLE OPEN.The second date. The unexpected favorite. Your call.

THE QUESTIONS BEFORE THE CITY

LET’S GET
YOU MOVING.

From choosing your first base to making the invitation that gets the week going.

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01How are the city guides different from the country guides?
The country guides help you choose the trip. These city editions help you live it: where to base yourself, named places with maps, a three-day rhythm, and date invitations you can adapt. Open the pocket planner when you want to turn the ideas into your own route.
02Where should I start for my first Philippines trip?
Compare Manila with Cebu. Manila gives you several big-city chapters; Cebu gives you a city base with the possibility of a separate coastal stay. Start where your interests and conversations lead you, then choose a neighborhood inside that city.
03Can I use the itinerary without arranging any dates?
Absolutely. The places, daylight outings, and city routines are useful on their own. A worthwhile trip gives you things to enjoy and talk about whether a particular conversation becomes a date or stays a conversation.
04Can I save the places I want to visit?
Yes. Each city links to the pocket planner. Start from the suggested route, move stops between days, choose your base, and keep a plan you can return to. The map links take you directly to a search for the named place.
05Should I start meeting women before I travel?
Start with a real conversation and an honest travel window. Findmate is where Woody’s recommends beginning the search. Get to know her, ask what area suits her, and make a specific invitation once you are both interested.